Hi guys!

I’m here to rant today πŸ₯Ί bear with me but I actually cannot overlook this because it’s so painful when I hear stories of how ladies treat each other. I don’t understand why hate and jealousy have to become a norm amongst women. We’re supposed to push each other to be better and it’s of great concern to me because I personally go lengths to make sure I support my girls in any way. Trust me sometimes I do not get half the energy I give back but that doesn’t make me wanna hate on them and wish them bad. I even go as far as giving them business ideas you know. These are the little things that count and doesn’t make you less of a human. I just feel we ladies can do better. We just need to lift each other up.

I champion my friends. I want nothing more than for them to be successful, loved, and happy. I want all the good fortune to come their way because I know it doesn’t mean that there will be less for me. There’s enough good to go around. Call me crazy but I love to see other women happy and succeeding. I wish more women realized that helping another woman win, cheering her on, praying for her, or sharing a resource with her does not take away the blessings coming to them. In fact, the more you give the more you receive. That phrase isn’t new to us.

When women support each other, we’ll be stronger. I’m so obsessed with seeing women encourage, support, and empower other women. It’s my favorite thing to do and we need more of it. Behind every successful woman are other successful ones who have her back and support each other instead of being filled with hate and jealousy. I want to urge every woman out there to support other women, complement each other, give words of encouragement. Too many times we try to be competitive with each other. It’s totally human to feel competitive and sometimes, it’s normal to feel jealous but we have to shake those negative emotions and not let them dictate our relationship with one another. We should support each other, rather than try to be better than each other.

Support small businesses, celebrate their victories. A strong woman not only stands up for herself but stands up for everybody else. Be that woman who fixes another woman’s crown without telling the world it was crooked. Empowering women doesn’t come from selfishness but rather from selflessness. Build others up because you know what it is to be turned down. I personally have been through a series of backlash from ladies and a whole lot of disappointments here and there and I know several people who messed up in some friendships. I’ve just learnt to make friends with women who force me to level up.

Women who understand how powerful they are do not give into envy over meaningless things instead they fight to maintain the beautiful bond of the sisterhood. We need to build each other up instead of tearing each other down. That’s why most females just prefer to have more male friends because they’ve gone through some certain experiences. I have more male friends too. I only want to see the best things happen for the women around me. The women I have in my circle or come across have been hyper supportive of my journey (not every one of them to be honest). Of course, not always would we come across positive people who support us. I don’t feel this is a woman-centered issue; it’s more of a “type of person you are” thing.

If you can love other women, you have the capacity to love yourself. Love is the essence of being a woman. Every woman’s success should be an inspiration to another. We’re strongest when we cheer each other on. The power of women in positive gatherings is immeasurable. I believe the love we give today comes back tenfold tomorrow, I believe in the power of women helping women. The more we encourage others, the more support and encouragement we receive in return. This is what I see happen for women who support other women. For example, I’m sure some of us if not most of us know the popular influencer who goes by the name Berbiedoll. I see her snaps and that of her friends every day and there’s no day you won’t see them posting each other businesses on their pages and asking people to patronize their friends. All I see there is teamwork, support, and encouragement. Asides from the fact that they’re all rich and made they started from somewhere too!

To every strong woman out there, keep your head up and smile no matter how tired or weak you are at the moment. Keep pushing, keep thriving, and keep forcing yourself to do better and accomplish what you want in your life. I applaud you, your determination, and desire to go forward. Don’t ever get tired of being a good person with a good heart. I know it sucks being taken advantage of. Don’t forget you matter. You never truly know the true impact you have on people around you. You never know how much your kindness turned someone’s life around. Don’t wait for better circumstances, or for someone else to change. Just be kind, you never know how much someone needs it.

Love always ❀️

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  1. Honest truth is I think support comes in different levels, I might not necessarily post about you on my status but I definitely refer you to someone and mention your name in places of opportunities. I can boldly say the people I have gone all out for haven’t gone an inch for me, it used to be really hurting but over time I learnt to do things without expecting anything in return. Women have the habit of being unhealthily competitive but I really still don’t get why because I know the sky is big enough for everyone.

    1. There are different levels to this support thing you know. I agree with you totally. Thank you for taking out time to comment ❀️

  2. This is beautiful because this is one of the main issues that are breaking relationships, ‘jealousy and envy’
    Just because your girl has this more than you , you dont support her anymore
    That is why i choose my friends friends support me as i do for them
    Thank you TofunmiπŸ”₯πŸ’ž

    1. Yes girl! If you can’t support at all don’t even feel entitled to anothers support. Thanks for commenting

  3. This aspect of womanhood should be emphasized everyday. These men are wild and the only way to tame them as a woman is really to come together and support one another!
    We can never go wrong with that.
    Preach Tofunmi!

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